Teen Safety: Prepare for emergencies in the community
All teens eventually grow into a desire of becoming more independent and, sometimes, it is demonstrated with a side of attitude that they know everything. When in fact, they do know more than the past year. However, life does not always hand us the best experiences with a pair of rose-colored glasses. As young individuals, it is possible they will learn that others may not have the best intentions for them or encounter unexpected conflicts in any community setting. Teen boys and girls then have the role of representing themselves independently and responsibly.
As much as caregiving adults would like to protect our kids through the hilt with an impenetrable bubble throughout their adulthood, at some point teens will find the need to protect their own social welfare. Believe it or not, the most empowering process for teens is finding their voice and representing themselves through communication under stress. But this voice is hard to find when someone else speaks for them.
How many of us have lost our words in the midst of a stressful situation? How many times have we come across situations when we wished that we said something specific or forgotten details in retrospect? Stumbling blocks in language and communicative intent happen all the time. Whether a conflict may involve mistaken identity or a question about guardianship, the most basic information in any conflict with authority is the question, "Do you have identification?" Consider situations on the other end of the spectrum where teens may find themselves becoming embroiled with instances involved with bullying, theft, or inappropriate dialog with strangers. In any case, teens need to be supported with problem-solving situations and social rehearsals responding to "What would you do if.....?"
All teens who are exploring their independence through community events, hangouts, or meet-up groups can benefit from (1) specific discussions about teen safety and (2) carrying some type of identification with them at all times. Here are some informative resources to get you started with how you might want to frame your conversation with your teens and best format for identification.
Child & Teen Safety Issues
www.childdevelopmentinfo.com
Driver License and Identification Card Information
www.dmv.ca.gov
IdentAKid - Keeping Kids Safe
www.identakid.com
Family Emergency Plan
www.ready.gov
Hope this helps. And I look forward to seeing more responsible teens in the community.